How to Choose between Top Wedding Venues in Your Area

Making sure your special day turns out magical is extremely important for you, as the bride and groom. It is the start of your new lives together and what better way to get to know each other even better and to start opening the channels of communication, than through working together to decide between the top wedding venues in your area.

Many couples are known to have arguments when it comes to this stage in the planning process. So it will be interesting to see how you and your partner have a go at it. Each person within a couple will have their own ideas, views and beliefs, expressing these, is where the trouble can start to set in.

So grab a pen and paper, have the Internet handy, and get started. It could be a good idea to start with writing down some of your visions. Many people will already have an image in their minds as to what their wedding day was going to look like and consist of. Getting these out of your mind and onto paper first, will provide you both with a really good starting point for your discussions and preparations. If you leave the great idea or vision you had for the lawn orchestra till later on, it could pose a definite problem if your fiancé wanted the reception to be on a boat.

OK, so now you both know what you want in terms of basic ideas and venue types. This is where the compromise will have to start! Even couples that are like two peas in a pod are going to have different opinions of one form or another. Learning how to compromise on things prior to your wedding day will help to ensure yours is a marriage that will continue to grow stronger throughout the coming years.

Start searching online and make a list of top wedding venues that you would be willing to talk about and consider for your special day. Once you have narrowed the venues down to a list of about 3 to 5, it would then be a great idea to start listing the advantages and disadvantages next to each one. This is the time to list down your lawn orchestra as an advantage next to those reception venues that can cater for it!

Some of the aspects you may need to also compromise on and consider will be the number of guests that you are willing to invite to the reception. There is no point looking at a brilliant reception venue that can cater for 50 sitting guests, when your current guest list stands at 100.

Aspects like seating arrangements, indoor and outdoor choices, music and lighting, catering, and the choice of decorations, will also help to narrow down your search for top wedding venues, as you will be able to start crossing off the venues that have too many disadvantages in comparison to what it is you and your fiancé have compromised on.

Good luck with your search, and more importantly, good luck with your discussions and remember to be honest, listen carefully and compromise with each other!

Top Wedding Venues is a big thing to take into consideration. Thankfully Elegant Venues is a Northamptonshire based company that will be able to help you. For more information on the company please visit the website at http://www.elegantvenues.co.uk/

by Jennifer Connor - 2010-04-07

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